Robert V. Kelly - October 16, 2015
Robert Kelly of Spring Lake Heights passed away on October 16, 2015, peacefully in his home. Robert was born and raised in Jersey City. He was a graduate of St. Peter's Prep and St. Peter's College in Jersey City and New York Law.
He was predeceased by his parents, Francis and Ellen Marie (Regan) Kelly, and his brother, Brig. Gen. Francis Kelly. Surviving are his daughter, Lauren Kelly, his sister, Ellen Marie (Kelly) Kudlacik, sister-in-law, Harriet (Pepin) Kelly, six nieces and nephews, and 12 grand nieces and nephews. Bob was a communicant of St. Elizabeth's Church in Avon-by-the-Sea.
Visiting will be Thursday 4-7 PM at the O'Brien Funeral Home, 2028 Highway 35, Wall, N.J., A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated on Friday at 10 AM at St. Elizabeth Catholic Church, 424 Lincoln Avenue, Avon-by-the Sea, N.J. Burial will follow in Holy Name Cemetery, Jersey City, N.J.
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John Leather - December 18, 1939 - March 22, 2024
John David Leather, 84, of Middletown, NJ passed away on March 22, 2024. He was born in Jersey City, NJ and lived in Middletown for over 50 years. John joined the United States Marine Corps. after graduating from St. Peter's Prep High School. He then attended and graduated from St. Peter's College in 1964, earning a Bachelor's Degree in English.He later earned his Master's Degree in English Literature from Seton Hall University.
John entered the Army Reserves, in which he served for over twenty years, retiring as a CW3 (Warrant Officer 3). For most of John's civilian career he worked as a computer programmer in New York, NY and in Newark, NJ. John was a member of Mensa, he loved animals, vegetable gardening, books, traveling and, most of all, his family. He will be remembered for his sense of humor, his intellect and his quiet, kind nature.
Surviving are his two sons, Sean Henry Leather and Timothy George Leather; daughter Meg Elizabeth (George R.) Reid; two grandchildren, Hannah Rose Reid and Ian George Reid; and many nieces and nephews.
John was preceded in death by his wife, Kathleen Leather; brothers James H. Leather and Peter Thomas Leather and parents George and Sabina Leather.
Visitation will be held Tuesday, March 26, 2024, 5:00 pm - 8:00 pm at John F. Pfleger Funeral Home, 115 Tindall Road, Middletown.
A funeral Mass will be offered Wednesday, March 27, 2024 at 11 am at the Church of St. Anselm, 1028 Wayside Road, Tinton Falls.
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James Mack - January 13, 1940 - January 5, 2020
On November 23, 2020 James J. Mack passed away at the age of 80. Born & raised in Jersey City he resided in Edison for 40 years before moving to Manchester 9 years ago, after retiring following 36 years as the Publisher of Used Equipment Directory. Surviving are his wife of 53 years, Susan, daughters Kelly Carey & husband Andrew, Debbie Tripodi & husband Rob, son Sean & wife Michelle, his 7 grandchildren, Timothy, Emily, Ryan, Abby, Zach, Ashley and Madison, his sisters Joan Nelson & husband Bill, and Susie Mack & husband Robert Magro, his sister in law Linda VanAulen, brothers in law Robert and Bruce Woerner, and their families.
An old school Irish gentleman, he was passionate about his Catholic faith and his family, as well as politics and his friends at his local pub. Jim served his community as an Edison Township councilman, youth basketball coach, a Eucharistic minister at Immaculate Heart of Mary Church in Scotch Plains and St. John’s in Manchester. He enjoyed hosting parties and welcoming his family and friends.
Jim was a proud graduate of St. Peter’s College and St. Peter’s Prep in Jersey City, where a memorial scholarship is being created in his name. In lieu of flowers, donations to the James Mack Memorial Scholarship can be sent to St. Peter’s Prep, Office of Institutional Advancement, 144 Grand Street, Jersey City, NJ 07302.
A funeral mass will be live-streamed from St. John’s church in Lakehurst – www.stjohnlakehurst.com in the near future and will be posted. For directions or to send on-line condolences, please visit our website at www.oliveriefuneralhome.com.
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Gerald Magliano - Oct 12, 1940 - Jun 13, 2025
Gerald “Jerry” Robert Magliano, 84, of Lenexa, Kansas, passed away peacefully on June 13, 2025, following a courageous battle with cancer. He leaves behind his devoted wife of 54 years, Maria “Rory” Magliano; his children Anthony Magliano (Christen Edwards), Michael Magliano, and Lisa Markley (Jim Markley); beloved grandchildren Evan and Lilah Markley; sister Cynthia DeJong (Dr. John DeJong); brother George Magliano (Pat Schaffert); and many extended family and friends.
Born in Hackensack, New Jersey in 1940, Jerry grew up in Hasbrouck Heights as the oldest of four children of Anthony and Rose Magliano. He was a supportive big brother to Cynthia and George and carried the memory of their youngest sister, Rosemarie, who died in infancy, throughout his life. His siblings lovingly described him as studious, independent, and true—qualities that defined his character from a young age.
Later in life, Jerry became the proud patriarch of the Magliano family, offering strength, guidance, and a deep sense of tradition to all those he loved. He attended Corpus Christi Catholic School and later St. Peter’s Prep in Jersey City, a Jesuit high school that shaped his intellect and values. There, he played on the 1958 undefeated state championship baseball team and often said his years at “the Prep” were among the most formative of his life. Jerry earned a degree in Chemical Engineering from the University of Detroit, where he completed a cooperative education program with Ford Motor Company.
While in college, he also trained through the Marine Corps Platoon Leaders Course and was commissioned a Second Lieutenant upon graduation. Over a 20-year career in the United States Marine Corps, Jerry served with honor and distinction, including two tours in Vietnam and leadership roles throughout the U.S. and abroad. In 1965, before the official start of the Vietnam War, he was commissioned on a top-secret mission to deploy with Bravo Battery to Da Nang, where he helped establish ground-to-air missile defense on Hill 327 and train friendly Vietnamese forces. His final assignment brought him to the Marine Corps Finance Center in Kansas City, where he retired in 1983 with the rank of Major, serving as Head of the Consolidated Disbursing Office. It was during his assignment at Fort Bliss in El Paso, Texas in the late 1960s that Jerry met the love of his life, Maria “Rory” Delgado. They were married on May 22, 1971, at St. Michael’s Chapel on Fort Bliss and soon after settled in Mission Viejo, California, where they began raising their family.
In 1978, Rory and the children returned to El Paso to be near her family while Jerry completed a yearlong unaccompanied tour in Okinawa, Japan. Throughout his life, Jerry remained very close with all his in-laws, embracing the Delgados as his own extended family with warmth and deep affection.
After retiring from active duty, Jerry earned his MBA from Rockhurst University and served as Director of its MBA program. In 1988, he began teaching at Johnson County Community College, where he served as Assistant Dean of Business, Technology, and Computer Instruction before returning to full-time teaching. He retired in 2014, having left a lasting impact on countless students and colleagues. In 2000, Jerry partnered with his neighbor Don Norwood to co-develop the first Academy of Math and Science in the state of Kansas at Fort Hays State University. They worked tirelessly for several years to gain state legislative support and funding. When it finally opened, the Academy became one of only 16 in the nation offering high school juniors and seniors the opportunity to earn their diplomas while simultaneously completing college coursework.
Today, more than 300 students have graduated from the program, a legacy of Don and Jerry’s vision and dedication to education. In his final decade of life, Jerry continued to serve his country through civic leadership as President of the Kansas City chapter of the Military Officers Association of America (MOAA), advocating nationally for the rights and benefits of veterans and their families. He embodied MOAA’s motto,“Never Stop Serving.”
Of all his accomplishments, Jerry considered his greatest achievement to be raising his three children, Anthony, Lisa, and Michael, with Rory. He was a man of intellect, humility, faith, and deep integrity. He loved food and sharing meals with friends and loved ones, found joy in music and history, and took pride in his Italian-American heritage. Jerry was also known for his quiet generosity and selfless acts of service to his family, friends, and neighbors. He was a deeply engaged grandfather who played an active role in the daily life and care of his grandchildren, Evan and Lilah, and his steady presence helped shape who they are today. Jerry lived a full and deeply meaningful life and truly believed that we should all be so fortunate.
Visitation will be held on Sunday, June 29, from 2:00 to 4:45 p.m. at Porter Funeral Home, 8535 Monrovia, Lenexa, KS. Eulogies will be shared from approximately 3:30 to 4:30 p.m., followed by the Rosary at 4:45 p.m.
The Funeral Mass will take place on Monday, June 30, at 10:00 a.m. at Good Shepherd Catholic Church, 12800 W. 75th St., Shawnee, KS. Following the mass, he will be laid to rest in the Holy Family Mausoleum at Resurrection Cemetery, Lenexa, KS. In lieu of flowers, help continue Jerry’s legacy by supporting any of the following organizations:
· Donald C. Norwood KAMS Scholarship
· Johnson County Community College Foundation
· Tunnel to Towers Foundation
Major Gerald Magliano will be remembered for his unwavering commitment to service in uniform, in the classroom, and in his community. His legacy lives on in the lives he touched, the institutions he helped build, and the family he so dearly loved.
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Paul McEntyre - November 2, 1940 - February 24, 2015
Paul McEntyre, of Brick, NJ, passed away peacefully on Tuesday, February 24, surrounded by his loved ones at Compassionate Care Hospice Center, Dover, NJ (Morris). Paul was born in Jersey City, NJ, to Florence (nee Hough) and William McEntyre, and grew up on Boyd Avenue. He attended grammar school at Our Lady of Victories (OLV), and high school at St. Peter's Preparatory School. He is a graduate of St. Peter's College, where he began his writing career as an editor of the college
newspaper. A winner of a Dow Jones fellowship, he also worked as a Summer intern at the Jersey Journal, Jersey City, while in college.
Years later he taught a Freshman writing course at his Alma Mater. Paul also served his country in the United States Army. Following basic training at Fort Dix, NJ, he was assigned to the 322nd Ordnance Company, where he attained the rank Sergeant.
In the 1950's the McEntyre family summered in the Indian Lake section of Denville, NJ, where they later settled, and where Paul first met Joan E. Schomer, who later became his wife in the Summer of '63. During the 1960's he worked as a journalist at many daily newspapers including the Morristown (Daily) Record and The Newark Evening News, he later worked for Boys Club of America in Manhattan as a Public Relations director.
Some years later after a long partnership in a New Yorkbased advertising agency Paul formed McEntyre Associates eventually moving the firm to Morris Plains, NJ. Paul was a longtime member of both the New Jersey Business & Industry Association, and the Garden State Journalist's Association where he was honored with an award for his article on the 9/11 tragedy; he also stayed active in other civic endeavors such as 200 Club, Boy Scouts of America, and the YMCA, to name just some. A longtime Denville resident, Paul later relocated to Rockaway Borough, where he lived for many years and served on the Township Council and as Fire Commissioner. In 2007 he headed south to Brick, NJ, to enjoy the Jersey Shore and be near his family.
Paul McEntyre, was predeceased by the love of his life Joan, in 1971, he was also predeceased by parents Florence & William McEntyre. He is survived by his daughter Kate McEntyre Orf (Kevin) of Escondido, CA; his granddaughter Rachel Joan Orf, also of Escondido, CA; his son Tim McEntyre (Wendy) of Brick, NJ; and his loving sister Claire McEntyre (Wayne) of Rockaway, NJ. As all who knew him will agree, he was deeply loved and will be greatly missed by his extended family and countless friends.
Viewing hours will be on Friday, March 6, 2015 from 4:00 8:00pm at Weatherhead Young Funeral Home, 885 Mantoloking Rd. Brick, NJ 08723. A Memorial Mass will be held on Saturday, March 7, 2015 at 11:00am at Church of the Visitation, Brick. Cremation will be private. Any donations may be made in his name to a charity of your choice.
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John P. McHale - January 15, 1941 - November 18, 2024
John P. “Jack” McHale, 83 of Gettysburg, PA passed away on Monday, November 18, 2024 surrounded by family at his home.
He was born January 15, 1941 in Jersey City, NJ, son of the late John & Ann (Caden) McHale.
Jack is survived by his beloved wife of 60 years, Ann E. (Savage) McHale.
He was a graduate of St. Peters University in Jersey City and earned his Master’s Degree from the University of Baltimore. Jack worked for the Social Security Administration from 1963 until his retirement in 2001, serving as Deputy Regional Commissioner in Philadelphia at the time of his retirement.
He enjoyed his family, spoiling his granddaughter, traveling with his wife, listening to Irish Music and was an avid golfer.
In addition to his wife, Jack is survived by three daughters, Maura McHale Allison (Keith) of Taylorsville, MD, Brenda Ciccarone (Brent) of Baltimore, MD and Jean Marie McHale of Baltimore, a granddaughter Ella McHale Ciccarone, two sisters, Maureen Mendles of Kearney, NJ and Geraldine O’Connell of Netcong, NJ and several nieces, nephews and grand nieces and nephews. He was predeceased by a sister, Theresa McCollum.
A Mass of Christian Burial will be held at 10:30 a.m. on Monday, November 25, 2025 at St. Francis Xavier Catholic Church, 45 West High Street, Gettysburg, PA.
Interment in St. Francis Cemetery will follow the Mass.
A Visitation will be held at the Monahan Funeral Home in Gettysburg on Sunday, November 24, 2024 from 3-5 p.m.
In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to Gettysburg Community Soup Kitchen, 22 W. High St. or Sisters of St. Joseph, 9701 Germantown Ave., Philadelphia, PA 19118.
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Donald Melega - April 6, 2010
Donald G. Melega, 70, of New Providence, N.J. passed away on Tuesday, April 6, 2010, at Overlook Hospital in Summit.
Relatives and friends are invited to a viewing from 4 to 8 p.m. Friday, April 9, at Paul Ippolito Summit Memorial, 7 Summit Ave., Summit. The funeral will begin at 9 a.m. on Saturday, April 10, in the funeral home, followed by the Funeral Mass at 10 a.m. in Our Lady of Peace Church, South St., New Providence. Interment will take place in Holy Cross Cemetery, North Arlington.
Don leaves behind the love of his life of 46 years, Mary (nee Rogan), his daughter, Tara Melega-Turchick, and her husband, Andrew, and daughter, Katie Melega, of Hoboken. He also leaves behind his beloved sister Rose Keselica of Bayonne. He was predeceased by his parents William and Anna, his brother William and sisters Anna Grabowski and Dorothy Stasko.
Mr. Melega was born and raised in Bayonne and has lived in New Providence for 31 years.
He attended St. Peter’s Prep in Jersey City, where he enjoyed an extraordinary career as a shortstop which rewarded him a place as a member of the Hall of Fame, Class of ’58 undefeated baseball team. Upon graduation, Don accepted a full baseball scholarship to Villanova University and was later signed to play for the Yankee Rookies. Following his recruitment into the minors, he completed his Masters in Banking at the University of Virginia.
Don held the distinguished position of Vice President in banking for more than 30 years, throughout his professional career. He retired from Wachovia Bank in 2006. Don was an avid golfer, reader and was an active member of the Summit YMCA.
In lieu of flowers, the family asks that donations in his memory be made to the Overlook Cancer Center, through a donation by check payable to The Overlook Hospital Foundation, which should be mailed to: 36 Upper Overlook Road, P.O. Box 220, Summit, NJ 07902 or to St. Peter's Prep, Class of 1958 Scholarships/Donald G. Melega, 144 Grand St., Jersey City, NJ 07302.
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Frank Meola - July 29, 2022
Francis J. Meola, 76, passed away at Bayshore Community Hospital in Holmdel on January 14, 2017. He was born to the late Basil and Rose (Rienzo) Meola in Jersey City and had lived in various towns in Monmouth County before moving to Belford 15 years ago.
Francis was an avid golfer and he loved animals, specifically dogs, but, more than these he loved helping people. He worked as a doctor for Riverview Medical Center in Red Bank and was the Director of Labor and Delivery for many years.
He is survived by his son and daughter in law: Basil and Suzanne Meola of Howell; his daughters: Christine Meola of Princeton and Claire Meola of PA. He is also survived by his brother and sister and their spouses: Bob and Diane Salge of Sea Girt, Camille Doronin of Long Branch and Gloria and Harold Zuber of Wall Twp., as well as his two granddaughters, Katherine and Michele Meola.
Visitation will take place at the John E. Day Funeral Home 85 Riverside Avenue Red Bank, NJ 07701 on Wednesday January 18, 2017 from 2-6 PM with a funeral home service at 5:30 PM. Interment will be private.
In lieu of flowers and to honor Francis' love of animals, donations in his memory can be made to SPCA 260 Wall Street Eatontown, NJ 07724.
Tributes to Frank
From Ralph DeSevo
Fran and I remained friends after we left the Prep. He delivered 2 of my 3 children. We played golf regularly for over 40 years. He took care of any medical problems I had over the years and was such a good friend that we could talk about any problems each of us had. He was a great doctor who helped many, many people. I am devastated. I feel like I lost a brother that I never had. I will miss him more than words can describe. Have fun in the golf course in heaven.
From Allan McCarthy
Requiescat in pacem, Frank
From Jim Heaney
Very sad news. Frank was a true example of the Prep spirit that we all try to emulate... intelligent, caring, competent and generous with his many talents. His memory will linger.
From Vince Grillo
I knew Frank while we were at Prep, but being a Union City boy, I didn't have a relationship with him outside of school. He was a friendly guy, a fierce intramural basketball player, and seemed well liked by his Jersey City buddies. I got to know him better when we started the Cuppa Club. Frank made it to quite a few of the Cuppas, and I got a chance to spend some time with him at the Summa Bash in August, 2015. A very friendly guy, with a quick sense of humor, and an ability to carry on an interesting conversation. May he rest in peace.
From Bob Filoramo
Pax vobiscum! Thanks for letting us know about Fran. Caught me completely off guard. He had been a Cuppa attendee and appeared to be in good health. I was the holder for the many extra points Fran kicked; we were a pretty good team. We know not the day nor the hour.
From Gerry Drummond
Hey Frank, I was looking forward to continuing our ongoing conversation with you at our '58 luncheon this Tuesday 1.17.2017. Clear and convincing answers are at times tough to come by--even for tough guys like us-- in this life of faith and action which involves seeing and acting through a glass darkly. Your search for truth and your care and respect for others was a light for many of us that still burns bright and was a source of delight and insight, I'm sure, for so many families. You're in my prayers and love, '58 St. Peter's Prep Brother, Gerry
From Richie Cosgrove
Here is my favorite story about Frank Meola. In our senior year Frank played left guard. The second game of the season was against St. Cecilia's of Englewood, built as a leading team. The game was a mud bath and neither team could move the ball well. In the second quarter Prep had a fourth and 2 at the 8 yard line. Bill Cochrane sent in play 222 where the key block was the left guard pulling right and trapping the opposing tackle. I will always remember that Frank obliterated the tackle and Prep gained four precious yards and a first down.
In the early 1990s I obtained the game film from that day via my nephew and sure enough there was the play as I remembered it: Frank clearing the hole. I sent Frank that film and told him that no matter how many babies he delivered or whatever else he accomplished, that one play was the greatest single achievement of his life.
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William Morrissey - May 9, 1940 - March 23, 2023
We are sad to announce that on March 23, 2023, at the age of 82, William J. Morrissey of Brick, New Jersey, born in Jersey City, New Jersey passed away. Leave a sympathy message to the family on the memorial page of William J. Morrissey to pay them a last tribute.
He was predeceased by : his wife Ann Carol Morrissey (Cavanaugh); and his parents, William A. Morrissey and Genevieve Morrissey. He is survived by : his children, William Edward Morrissey (Marybeth) of Toms River, Josyane Coughlin (Bill) of Rumson and Julia Ann Chrobocinski (Kevin) of Eatontown; his brother Richard Morrissey (Marie) of Point Pleasant; and his grandchildren, Eva Marie Morrissey, Olivia Morrissey, William Coughlin, Natalie Chrobocinski and Jake Chrobocinski.
Visitation will be held on Thursday, March 30th 2023 from 3:00 PM to 7:00 PM at the O'Brien Funeral Home - Brick (505 Burnt Tavern Rd, Brick Township, NJ 08724). A funeral mass will be held on Friday, March 31st 2023 at 11:00 AM at the Church of St. Martha (3800 Herbertsville Rd, Point Pleasant, NJ 08742).
Donations may be made in his name to the Alzheimer's Association of NJ. Donations are being accepted for: Alzheimer's New Jersey.
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Anthony Neusch - February 7, 1940 - October 28, 2023
On Wednesday, February 7, 1940 Anthony Stewart Neusch was born on Frisby Ave in the Bronx, NY. The world changed that day for the better because over the next 83 plus years, Tony Neusch made an impactful difference in every place he visited and the countless lives he touched and influenced.
Dad grew up in Dumont, NJ with his Dad, mom and brother Peter, my amazing Uncle. It was here where Dad began to form his strong Faith, the importance of family, the resilience of living life with high morals, hard work and standards, the importance of education and his love for sports especially baseball and running.
Dad’s deep faith started early when he attended St. Mary’s school in Dumont Kindergarten through 8th grade. He continued living his faith and catholic education by attending St. Peter’s Prep HS in Jersey City. During HS, Dad ran for the St. Peter’s Prep cross country team and track team while achieving the honor of captain for both teams his senior year. Dad’s love of baseball was not neglected as he also played for the local Babe Ruth teams during the same time.
It was also during his senior year in HS that Dad met our mom at a CYO Christmas dance in Teaneck on December 28, 1957. From that day on and for the next 56 wonderful years, they were side by side, hand and hand and heart to heart.
When Dad graduated HS in 1958, his faith still growing, his desire to run and to further his academic excellence, Dad chose to attend St. Peter’s College, now St. Peter’s University, also in Jersey City. Simultaneously, mom attended a catholic nursing school to pursue her desire to become an RN.
During his four years at St. Peter’s College, Dad once again achieved both academic and sports excellence. He was captain of the cross-country team and the track and field team, he also qualified for many invitational races including the famed Melrose Games at Madison Square Garden. Dad’s hard work was finally recognized as he received the St. Peter’s College student athlete award for his graduating class of 1962.
Despite all these hard-earned achievements, Dad would later express that his greatest accomplishment in college was joining the ROTC Program and a chance to serve his country. Dad excelled at ROTC for 4 years, graduated with the rank of 2nd Lieutenant and by the time his commitment to the US Army was completed, Dad reached the rank of Captain.
After waiting patiently for 4 years, mom and Dad were married on November 10, 1962 (ironically the marine corps birthday). Their love and devotion to each other was further cemented when only 4 months later, Dad was deployed to Korea for 13 months. Despite the distance and months apart, Dad wrote to my mom every day expressing his unwavering love for her and how he counted the days to when they will be reunited back in the states. That finally happened in March of 1963 and they were never apart again for the next 51 years.
After some time living in Georgia finishing out his military commitment, Dad and mom moved back to NJ and finally settled at 16 Poplar St, Closter, NJ in June of 1965. It is here were Dad and mom started our family and created and fostered a beautiful life for all of us. Lucy was born in September of 1965, Chuck in May of 1967, A.J. in June of 1969, myself in September of 1970 and Jim in February of 1972.
Dad was everything a Father could be and much more. Dad provided a loving home for everyone. Dad was always actively involved and invested in all our activities, our schooling and our religious education.
Dad always provided guidance, words of encouragement, the best advice, the calming voice when needed and the steady and solid rock every family needs.
This was a continuous attribute of Dad every day for our family all the way up until the day he entered the hospital this past July 20th.
Dad instilled morals, hard-work ethic, strong faith, the love and devotion of family, the desire to give back and help others, the importance of education and to always do the right thing and be the better person. Sometimes these life lessons were easy to learn growing up and sometimes we made it difficult to master but Dad never wavered and always steered the ship to make sure we were all headed in the right direction no matter how old we all were.
All the Fatherly advice and life lessons Dad wanted us to adhere to were not just hollow words Dad was speaking. Dad illustrated all of them every day by living by example. Dad has been a devoted parishioner of St. Mary’s Church since 1965. Over the years, Dad has been a EM, a Lector, Parish Council member, President of the Parish Council, Pre-Caina instructor, bringing communion to shut-ins, finance advisor, going to daily mass since his retirement in 1997, and countless other church activities and events over the past 58 years.(Importance of going to church – my vacation story)
Furthermore, despite having 5 children and working full-time in NYC, Dad completed his Master’s Degree at NYU by going to night school for 3 years. Plus, Dad would walk over a half mile to the bus stop every morning for 34 years and commute to the city for work. And I don’t think Dad ever had a bad day at work because once he walked through the back door, he had the biggest proudest smile on his face because he was home with his family and that’s all that mattered.
Dad was involved with the Closter Recreation for years, coaching and volunteering. Dad also volunteered and served on the Closter Board of health for 26 years.
Dad is the most honest person I have ever known or met in my life. I truly believe that there isn’t one person who has ever met my Dad, worked with my Dad, coached with my Dad or been involved with my Dad in some way could say a bad word about him but instead would only express kind words and be happy to have known Tony Neusch.
There hasn’t been an occasion where Dad hasn’t been fully devoted to the well-being of our family. This was no more evident and on display when my mom became ill will Alzheimer’s. For 3 long years, my Dad heroically took care of mom attending to her every need and cared for her with the kindest and most selfless love.
After the passing of our mom in December of 2014, Dad once again was the rock for our family despite losing the love of his life the past 56 years.
Dad illustrated every day to be strong and forge ahead in life because there is still much to do and accomplish. And Dad knew there were still numerous people who relied on him and needed him.
Dad also demonstrated by example another life lesson after the passing of our mom. After some time of healing, you can find love again. And with God’s help Dad found Roseann. There was a potluck dinner being held in the Fr. Roger Hall here at St. Mary’s. Both my Dad and Roseann attended by chance. They got to talking and things took off from there. It’s been a beautiful partnership all these years and both my Dad and Roseann have been better for it. My Dad always said that he was blessed by two amazing women in his life and he was always thankful for this incredible gift.
Dad’s love of sports never wavered his whole life. After college, Dad eventually joined a running club based out of Oneonta, NY. And many weekends I would travel with him to either Kingston, New Paltz, or Woodstock for a 5k race. I cherished those days driving with Dad to and from his races and watching him compete. Dad ran many local races as well, and helped George Potterton start the Closter 5K on Labor Day weekend many years ago. Dad continued running well into his late 60’s/early 70’s.
My most treasured memories of Dad and sports is playing baseball. For over 45 years, we all played baseball together. Many times we were up at Hill Top field throwing, catching and hitting for hours at a time. It was great when his brother Peter would join in, family friend Charlie Franzman and later when his grandchildren would play as well. There was nothing more special than having 3 generations all playing the game we love most together.
The last time I played baseball with Dad was in October of 2021. Dad was 81+ years old. He could still hit and was still a dead pull lefty hitter. He had a great round of batting practice that day. I didn’t know then that it would be the last time we ever played baseball together. Baseball will never be the same because we will always be one player short but each time I take the field, Dad will be there in some way.
I know how lucky we all were to have Tony Neusch as our Dad. You have always been my hero and my idol. I have always looked up to and admired you immensely. I will miss seeking your advice and wisdom. And hearing your Fatherly life lessons. I will miss talking sports with you especially about our favorite NY teams. I will miss going to church with my Dad. We will all miss you at our future family gatherings.
You have lived a beautiful, fulfilling, influential life. You leave a beautiful legacy that resonates throughout your 5 children and 15 grandchildren. You have touched countless lives and made the world a better place these past 83 years.
Thank you, Dad, for everything. We will All Miss You. We All Love You.
Tributes to Tony
From Jim Heaney
As one of Tony's "Greek" classmates for 3 years, my earliest memory of him was as a morning sprinter, book bag in hand, racing from the 'Tube' terminal on Grove Street across the open lots of those days toward Warren Street. I can imagine him now sprinting through those Pearly Gates toward the namesake of those schools that he attended, surely to be welcomed within as he once was through those gates of Warren Street so long ago. He has earned his eternal rest.
From Gerry Drummond
I visited Tony in the hospital these past 2+ months and attended his wake and funeral mass. I also met his five wonderful children and brother Pete.
Tony and I were in 6th grade when St. Mary's Dumont opened its doors. Tony was fast. We played on the same Babe Ruth team, the CWV and, by senior year at Prep, knowing how sure-footed he was, I hounded him to go out for cross-country and track. He beat me and lettered immediately. The '58 reunions connected us again. Tony's endurance and courage when bed-ridden recently was an inspiration. A true man for others.
From Bob Comizzoli
I remember Tony as a fellow classmate in Greek, and we both enjoyed it under the wise counsel of Raymond York, SJ. Tony went on to work for a former Bell System company, while I was with Lucent. Rest in peace, Tony
From George Armbruster
Tony was a good person and a good friend. I will miss him as will all who knew him. In thinking about Tony, I also think about our mutual good friend, Jack Ford, who passed away in 2011. My heart goes out to Tony’s partner, Roseann, who loved Tony dearly and who spent countless hours at his bedside during the period of Tony’s illness.
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Peter O'Connor -January 5, 2018
Mr. Peter J. OConnor, Sr., 77, died on Friday, January 5, 2018, at his home in West Caldwell.
A Funeral Mass will be offered in St. Teresa of Calcutta Parish at Immaculate Conception Church, Montclair on Wednesday, January 10 at 10 am. Visiting in the Prout Funeral Home, 370 Bloomfield Avenue, Verona on Tuesday from 4 to 7 pm.
Born in Kearny and raised in North Arlington, Mr. O’Connor lived in Montclair, Bloomfield and Caldwell. He then moved to Essex Fells, where he raised his 3 sons and hosted legendary dinner and holiday parties, including the celebrated Thanksgiving Brunch. He moved to West Caldwell 7 years ago.
He was a proud graduate of St. Peter’s Prep in Jersey City, NJ and earned a Bachelor’s degree in Accounting from College of the Holy Cross in Worcester, MA and an M.B.A. from Rutgers University in Newark, NJ.
Mr. O’Connor worked as a Certified Public Accountant for Peat, Marwick, Mitchell & Company and Irving Trust before assuming the position of President for the Bank of Bloomfield and then the Intercommunity Bank, after which he began his own accounting firm, O’Connor, Deisler, P.A. He was also the President of the West Essex Community Health Services and a long-time member of the West Essex Chamber of Commerce.
Peter was an avid golfer and long-time member of the Essex Fells Country Club, where he served on the Board of Trustees. He and his wife, Honey, were avid travelers and enjoyed many trips with their incredible friends. He was fortunate to continue with his amazing travel adventures after his wife’s passing with his devoted lifelong friends. He was a Yankees and Giants fan, who rarely missed a game.
Mr. O’Connor was the beloved husband for 31 years of the late Maureen “Honey” O’Connor (nee Fleming), the loving father of Peter J. O’Connor, Jr., M.D. and his wife, Sarane, Kevin J. O’Connor and his wife, Judy and Brendan F. O’Connor and his wife, Beth. He was the cherished grandfather of his 7 grandsons, Patrick, Timothy, Kevin A., Ross, Ian, Colin, Brody and his one and only granddaughter, Hope Maureen O’Connor. He was also the step son of Agnes O’Connor, the brother of Judy McDonald, Donald O’Connor (Eileen), Dennis O’Connor (Mila) and Gerard O’Connor and brother-in-law of Jim Linehan. He was predeceased by his parents, Arthur and Margaret O’Connor, and his sister, Maureen “Penny” Linehan.
In lieu of flowers, donations to either the Parkinson’s Foundation (www.parkinson.org) or Autism Speaks (www.autismspeaks.org) would
appreciated.
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Alfred Paquin May 9, 1940 - March 1, 2015
Paquin, Alfred J., aged 74 of Hawthorne, died on Sunday, March 1, 2015.
He was the beloved husband of 45 years to Judy Rusinko Paquin. Alfred was born in Paterson and the son of the late Cecile and Francis Paquin of Hawthorne. He was a lifelong resident of Hawthorne, parishioner of St. Anthony's R.C. Church in Hawthorne. Alfred was retired and enjoyed reading, working with computers and on cars. A dear brother-in-law of Irene Steele, Margaret Peters, Helen Sidorek, Ann Marie and Tim Nevel, Nicholas and Judy Rusinko, all of Pennsylvania, and John and Barbara Rusinko of Nebraska.
Cremation will be private. A memorial Service will be held at 11:00am on Saturday, March 14, 2015 at St. Anthony's R.C. Church, 276 Diamond Bridge Avenue, Hawthorne. Friends may visit with the family at the funeral home on Friday evening from 5:00pm to 8:00pm at the Browning-Forshay Funeral Home, 557 Lafayette Avenue, Hawthorne.
In lieu of flowers, memorial donations can be made to the Wounded Warrior Project. To donate on line, go to: support.woundedwarriorproject.org
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Roi Plasse August 3, 1949 - March 8, 2021
With heavy hearts, Mr. Roi Leon Plasse, 80, of Manasquan, beloved husband, Father and Grandpa, passed away on Monday, March 8, 2021 with his loving family by his side.
Roi was born in Paterson and raised in Paterson and Hawthorne, NJ. He was a graduate of St. Peter’s Prep and St. Peter’s University in Jersey City, NJ. After college, Roi began an almost 40-year career with IBM Kingston, NY.
Later in life Roi ran the “Future Kids” program at the Atlantic Club for several years. Roi enjoyed biking, his many travels, a good book or film thriller, classical music, pizza and his large family!
Though Roi’s parents, Leon and Sadie and beloved daughter Susan have passed, Roi is survived by his devoted wife of 58 years, Mary (nee Robinson) Plasse, and by his loving children: Theodore Plasse and his wife Julie of Bethesda, MD, Karen and Chris Surgent of Manasquan, Douglas Plasse and his wife Erin of Encinitas, CA and Jeffrey Plasse and his finance` Tara Kelly of Manasquan.
Roi was the humorous and much loved Grandpa to Charles, Emily, William, Chloe and Hazel. We love you King Plasse!
Arrangements are under the care of Orender Family Home for Funerals, Manasquan. There will be a Mass of Christian Burial and Memorial nearer summertime. Memorial donations may be made to Church of St. Denis, 90 Union Avenue, Manasquan, NJ 08736.
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